In honour of my mum and dad.
At mum’s we ate Lindt, sour dough and caviar;
We rarely had soft drink or fast food.
At dad’s we ate Cadbury, macaroni and cheese;
We made pools of gravy in our mash potato.
The rule at mum’s: use the proper utensils;
The rule at dad’s: serve yourself or miss out.
Mum drank wine and mineral water;
Dad drank bourbon and Coke.
She wore diamonds and silk,
Lipstick, perfume and heels;
He wore blueys and blunnies,
Sawdust, grease and dirt.
She wanted a Labrador;
He wanted a Harley.
Mum took me to movies, restaurants, and botanical gardens;
Dad took me to hardwares, milk bars, and fish and chip shops.
Mum took me to art galleries, symphonies, and museums;
Dad took me to footy games, sheep farms, and garages.
Mum gave me a journal and bought me books;
Dad gave me a spade and built me toys.
Mum gave me piano lessons;
Dad gave me shooting lessons.
Mum told me to sit down and do my homework;
Dad told me to go outside and climb a tree.
Mum grew flowers and taught me how to make salad;
Dad grew a moustache and taught me how to make cement.
Mum taught me the names of flowers: impatiens, clematis, bougainvillea;
Dad taught me the names of tools: ratchet, spanner, Phillips screwdriver.
Mum taught me manners, spelling, and common sense;
Dad taught me laid-back, hard work, and fend for yourself.
At mum’s I sat up straight;
At dad’s I jumped on couches.
At mum’s I wore new clothes;
At dad’s I wore hand-me-downs.
Mum moved from house to house;
Dad built his brick by brick.
At mum’s on weekends,
At dad’s on weekdays.
Two worlds hard to reconcile,
To know where I belonged.
At six years old,
I wished they were one.
* * *
I love ballet and football, I love music and bonfires,
I love art and sport, I love essays and the ‘sticks.’
I wear silver and jewels, flannies and trakkies,
Now that I choose the clothes that I want.
I collect crystal and Akubras,
I write thoughts and I speak slang.
I’m cultured and I’m ocker;
I’m an academic bogan,
At home in classrooms and tin sheds.
I study literature and anthropology;
I live in hoodies and eat like a man.
My favorutie food is fish and chips,
The kind you get at a restaurant.
I eat the fish with the correct utensils,
I eat the chips with my hands.
Sushi reminds me of mum;
Maccas reminds me of dad.
Mum with hair so short it feels like velvet,
Dad with height so tall he looks like a tree trunk;
Her hands as soft as cream,
His hands calloused and cracked.
Her hands held me,
His hands held me.
Twenty years on,
I know where I belong:
I’m two worlds in one.
I am Dad’s,
I am Mum’s,
And I am loved.
* * *
This poem is adapted from one I entered in the Melaleuca Blue Life Writing Competition 2014. It was highly commended and published in the book You’ll Eat Worse That That Before You Die edited by Kari O’Gorman.
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